Are you seeking a discreet confidante who finally understands you with whom you can feel safe exploring your submissive fantasies with? Are you a seasoned slave craving to be on your knees submitting to the desires of a beautiful dominant woman, obeying her every order and command?

Welcome to Lydia Supremacy. Check your coat and ego in at the door and prepare for an intensely psychological experience as I take you on your submissive journey.

Kinky & predatory, I'm a connoisseur of submission and its many flavors. Whether you identify as a slave, sissy, or submissive fetishist, with my 8 years of professional experience, you will be lured into my web. You may have seen me in fetish and femdom videos. Now come experience me in the flesh...

As a Lydia Supremacist, I get off on forcing my will on the weak and employing sensual and disciplinary tactics, both physical and psychological, to break down and mold slaves into my captive play things. I will certainly delight in finding out what makes you tick and use it to my depraved advantage.

My personality is fluid, displaying a fun and playful demeanor one moment, or a sadistically cruel one the next, or perhaps somewhere in between? What I choose depends on what the scenario calls for as my end goal isn’t to “act” a certain way for your pleasure, but to seduce you into submitting to mine.

I’m an exotic blend of mixed Asian backgrounds with a sprinkle of Caucasian. I stand over 6’ tall in my size 9 heels and 5’7” without. I have slender feet with long slender toes to match which love being pampered. I have a fit frame designed to tease and taunt.

I’m based in Philadelphia and make monthly visits to NYC, DC, and regular tours down to Southern Florida as well as points beyond. I am available for outcall as well as travel with established clients or those with exceptional references. In Philadelphia I session from my personal private studio. My lair is discreet, equipped with custom bondage furniture, and well stocked with my preferred toys and tools of the trade to keep me amused and smiling. All surfaces and implements are thoroughly cleaned with medical grade cleaning product. I do outcall to upscale hotels only.

What gets my juices flowing:

• Behavior modification

• Bladder control

• Bondage (rope, restraints, sleep sacks, mummification)

• Breath play

• Caging/confinement (perfect place for a naughty captive pet's punishment or for a slave to spend the night!)

• CBT (kicking, scratching, stretching, sounds, electro)

• Chastity (key holding available)

• Collars/leashes

• Consensual non-consent: My specialty!

• Corporal punishment- caning, crops, spanking, flogging, face slapping

• Cross-dressing/sissy training (as humiliation or transformation)

• Diaper play

• Dinner & Domination

• Domestic discipline & maid servitude training

• Electro play (sensual to tortuous)

• Erotic photography & video
(I enjoy taking photos and videos of slaves in very compromising positions and posting it on my social media! I would love to show you off and make you feel erotically exposed! State your limits if a hood or mask is required or tattoos must be covered or blurred. If this is not something you wish to avoid, simply state this in your hard limits on your supplicate form and your limits will be respected.)

• Face slapping (with hands or feet; for emphasis or punishment)

• Financial punishment

• Food play

• Foot & boot worship

• Forced consumption

• Forced bi (available in Philadelphia only unless otherwise stated in my ads)

• Goddess Worship (I love being hand fed grapes and pampered with massages)

• Latex/rubber fetish

• Life coaching (schedule management, kinky private personal training and discreet public gym sessions)

• Order of Indomitus [hyperlink:] training
(A minimum of 2 hours is required. These sessions are to help prepare you for attending an Order of Indomitus event or if you have attended one in the past, this is a great way to to continue your OOI slavery experience!)

• Orgasm control

• Public play: There’s something about exerting my dominance in public settings that get me so HOT! This can rage from subtle domination in the vanilla public to completely over the top at fetish parties or gay bars.

• Raunch play- ruby showers, GS, scent, forced consumption, etc.
(Note: while post-gym workout scent play is amusing to me, I will not engage in scenes requiring extended preparation or skip basic rules of hygiene.)

• Sensory Deprivation

• Small Penis Humiliation and exploitation of inadequacies (weight, appearance, job, living situation)

• Smothering (clothed only)

• Strapon play

• Scratching

• Slave Training

• Slut Training

• Tease & Denial

• Trampling

• Verbal abuse- Mmmm!… the more extreme, the better!

I excel at creative non-scripted role plays. Some of my favorites involve anything to do with age play: teacher/student (I can be a stern teacher or a rebellious school girl), daddy/evil daughter, babysitter, big sister, mommy, auntie, boss/employee, undercover police officer, and taboo race or religious play.

To keep the flow going between sessions, I also offer online/phone domination and giving assignments to keep you focused. I welcome men, women, couples, and transgendered folk to contact me. I also enjoy double or group domme sessions. The more the merrier! This isn't always possible, but when it is, it will be listed on my availability page and social media when I will be hosting a visiting Mistress friend of mine at my dungeon. For those wanting to get to know me better before sessioning, I’m available for phone or cam consultations via NiteFlirt as well as in person consultations.

Like my interests, my clothing choices are fluid. I choose to adorn myself in latex or PVC fetish wear, lingerie, assorted outfits to fit many role plays or regular clothing. I’m at home equally in high heels/stiletto boots or running shoes. I am open to wardrobe requests or wearing an item especially purchased for me as long as it’s within my style preferences.

I prefer to be addressed as “Ms. Lydia” unless otherwise instructed as I don’t respond to “Mistress”. I pair well with slaves whom I share mutual interests with and are articulate, and seeking an authentic power exchange. I am also a good match for the well-behaved discerning submissive fetishists looking for a spicy time with a devious smile.

Be sure to read my blog entry about my protocols (hyperlink: and the type of slaves and play things I find desirable.

In call tributes starts at $300 per hour. Inquire for extended multi hour, overnight or multi day tributes.

Deposits are required. Read more about deposits on my PROTOCOL ( page. Two deposit methods are available: discreet billing online method or non paper trail method (the non paper trail method incurs a 50% convenience fee).

Outcall available in Austin, when visiting Dallas, as well as select visiting cities where noted on my travel ads and availability page. Travel fees start at $100. Be sure to include your address and zip code with travel quote inquiries.

Long distance travel:
Air fare, hotel, car rental (if required), meals and a flat rate travel fee are in addition to your session tribute. The full amount is to be paid in full before I book arrangements.